Valentine’s Day has a reputation for being either extremely romantic or extremely awkward–sometimes both. But at its core, it’s really an excuse to show appreciation, whether it’s for a significant other, your best friends, or yourself. From meaningful to low pressure gifts, here’s a valentines day guide that covers everyone’s relationship status.

For the Hopeless Romantic

If you’re leaning fully into the Valentine’s spirit, go for something sentimental. Jewelry doesn’t need to be flashy to be meaningful, a simple gold or silver necklace can say a lot.  A personalized photo book or framed pictures also make thoughtful gifts, especially when paired with a handwritten card.It’s the kind of present that feels intentional without being overdone.

For the New Relationship

Valentines in a new relationship can be tricky as you are only just starting to get to know each other. It’s all about finding the sweet spot between thoughtful and not too much. Think about taking your significant other on a fun dinner date, or surprise them with flowers and a handwritten card. These are the kind of gifts that are simple, yet go a long way.

For Galentine’s

Valentines Day isn’t just for couples, and honestly, Galentines gifts might be the most fun to give. Matching pjs, a Jellycat stuffed animal, or a Summer Fridays or Rhode lip balm are all fun little gifts to give to those who already feel like family. These are lighthearted but still thoughtful, which is ideal for showing appreciation without the pressure of romance.

For the Situationship

Valentine’s day in a situationship is all about knowing the limits. No label usually means no gift, and honestly, that’s probably for the best. You could always get them a label maker, but without anything to label, it doesn’t exactly solve the problem. A simple text or joking about the holiday together fits the mood perfectly. Until there’s a label a label maker could actually print, Valentines Day stays lowkey, right where it belongs.

For the Hallway Crush

Hallway crushes are all about timing. An anonymous vocal valentine put on by the LFHS choir is the perfect thing. It is just enough to show interest without turning your secret crush into a public moment. After all, the goal isn’t to make it awkward, it’s to give them something to smile about before they go to their next class.

For Yourself

Self love is still love. Whether it’s doing a facemask and bubble bath, or buying yourself a sweet treat, Valentine’s day is the perfect excuse to treat yourself. These gifts are about comfort and confidence, no reservations or expectations required.