The Masked Struggle with Anxiety
The pandemic has caused some teens to suffer in silence
April 26, 2021
TW: This article contains mentions of anxiety, self-injury, and disordered eating
Fever, cough, body aches, nausea, loss of taste or smell.
Many of us have experienced these physical symptoms of Covid-19 first-hand or know someone who has. They appear on our daily screeners, on posters outside of restaurants and other public buildings, and on healthcare websites like WebMD.
The non-physical “symptoms,” while equally important, are less publicized. The pandemic has had drastic effects on mental health, especially anxiety.
Since the onset of the pandemic in March 2020, 1 in 3 teen girls and 1 in 5 teen boys have reported new or worsened anxiety.
“During lockdown, my anxiety got very bad,” said sophomore Mia Divalerio. “I had so much time on my hands for overthinking, leading me to be in a constant state of panic.”
Quarantine didn’t just leave students alone. It left them alone with their negative thoughts and anxiety, without resources for support.
“The number one most common resource for students struggling with anxiety is the small contacts with people who care about them,” said social worker Mr. Daniel Maigler. “The teacher asking them about their new haircut, friends trying to ship their favorite anime characters … all these resources went missing for many months.”
Maigler and other social workers rely heavily on in-person interactions in the classroom to identify students who are hurting.
“[Teachers] notice something has changed in that person’s posture or engagement and ask me to check on them,” he said. “I shudder to think of how many kids we have missed who did not have the energy or confidence to ask for help because no one noticed their struggles.”
In a vicious cycle, the pandemic worsened anxiety for students, and on top of that, limited access to healthy coping mechanisms.
“It took away sports, being able to see my friends everyday, and working out in groups, which are all things that help me manage my anxiety,” said sophomore Mariella Haubner.
As a result, desperate teenagers may have turned to maladaptive coping strategies.
“People tend to turn to unhealthy coping skills like self-injury, disordered eating, risk-taking behaviors, and alcohol and drugs because these things change the way we feel quickly,” said Maigler.
These distractions, which may numb anxiety short-term, can also desensitize us to the joys of life.
“When the positive feeling is gone, we have to go back and deal with the stress of life,” he said. “A person faces the choice between stepping into the pain or staying numb all the time.”
Maigler recommends that students find productive ways to express their feelings through discussion, journaling, poetry, or art. Breathing exercises, which are available on an app called Headspace, may also help teens relax.
As COVID restrictions loosen up, students can regain increased access to friends, teachers, sports, and extracurriculars. While this sharp transition may have improved anxiety symptoms for some, it triggered social anxiety for others.
“After the pandemic, since I had been out of the social scene for so long, my social anxiety worsened,” said junior Lauren Atchley. “Throughout quarantine I was only communicating with my closest friends, so when quarantine ended, I was unsure about how to act around different people.”
If you or a peer struggle with anxiety, you can email your social worker for support.
“If you are not sure which one is the right social worker for you or a friend go ahead and email all three of us and we will work it out, no extra charge,” said Maigler.
Tegan • Apr 27, 2021 at 3:26 pm
Hey Sarah!
Thank you so much for writing this piece. Kudos to you for including a trigger warning at the start of it when a lot of different pieces of media online don’t. This is a really important issue that I felt you covered very well. 😀
– Tegan